But if you've done the work, the writing, the talking, the discerning, the looking for information, the pondering, then you've done your piece. It is up to the Lord.
He said to ask. Better, he promised to answer. He meant it. He means it.
He gives each of us a unique vocation. Some he calls to marriage. Some he calls to religious life. Some he calls to be a leaven in the world, serving him in the unique situations of career and friendships.
If we ask, and if we listen, he will tell us where he calls.